Marriage and Healthy Relationships

Marriage is the most beautiful and obligatory action in Muslim culture. It is the aggregation of social, legal & religious recognition. There are seen different taboos regarding marriage, which leads the adults and youths to obscenity. Besides, it is also essential to have physio-psychological, financial, and environmental preparation. So, to whom should you marry? It's a BIG question and a matter of thought. Once a wise man said, "there will come different persons in your life span, and you have to pick the best one." In this case, I think you can choose someone comfortable with the dynamism of your life and your family. Finally, remember the statement, "how can I forget that person who always cares for me."

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Marriage and Healthy Relationships Tips

What Makes a Good Marriage / Relationship?

According to Accord CLG  (2022), many factors contribute to a satisfying marriage/relationship, such as; Love, Commitment, Trust, Time,  Attention, Good Communication, Listening, Partnership, Tolerance, Patience, Openness, Honesty, Respect, Sharing, Consideration, Generosity, Willingness/Ability to Compromise, Constructive management of Disagreements/Arguments, Willingness to see another viewpoint, Ability and Willingness to Forgive/Apologies, Fun. The list is simple and obvious, yet it can be challenging for individuals /couples to restore their marriage/relationship to a satisfying one when difficulties arise or drift apart.  


What are the 8 Most Important Qualities of a Healthy Marriage? 

According to Jamie Friedlander (2020), Whether you recently said "I do" or you're a seasoned pro of 30 years, your marriage is likely to thrive if it contains most of the following elements, which are Intentionality, Empathy, Forgiveness, Integrity, Intimacy, Shared Values, Connection, and Openness.

What are the 10 Tips for a Healthy Marriage?

According to Wespath Benefits and Investments, a general agency of The United Methodist Church, Here are 10 tips to strengthen your marriage:

1. Spend Time with Each Other
2. Learn to Negotiate Conflict
3. Show Respect for Each Other at All Times
4. Learn About Yourself First
5. Explore Intimacy
6. Explore Common Interests
7. Create a Spiritual Connection
8. Improve Your Communication Skills
9. Forgive Each Other
10. Look for the Best in Each Other.

What are the 5 Principles for Building a Strong Marriage? 

According to JLP Staff  (2015), Too many people fail to understand some of the principles that build a strong marriage. In addition, some people simply don't know how much hard work it can take to build a loving and long term relationship with your spouse. The main principles for building healthy marriages are in the following:

1. Focus on Your Needs as a Couple;
2. Attitude is Everything;
3. Communicate, Communicate, Communicate!
4. Develop a Strong Foundation of Trust; and
5. Don't be too proud to Ask for Advice.


What are the 8 Traits of a Happy Marriage? 

According to  Janet Zinn, a Couples Therapist interviewed by Matt Christensen (May 10, 2018), what traits appear again and again when looking at long-term happy marriages? Well, there's no magic formula, and each couple must go about it in their own way and blah blah blah — you know the spiel. But when we zoom out a bit, common traits appear. To help make you more aware of what makes unions last, here are eight defining characteristics of long lasting-marriages. These are in the following:

1. They stay committed.
2. They assume their partner is doing their best.
3. They communicate respectfully
4. They laugh.
5. They are flexible.
6. They are curious.
7. They share values.
8. They are willing to learn and grow.

9 Conditions for Healthy Relationships

1. Be respectful to your partners, friends' n families;
2. Be firm on your goals and make proper plans;
3. Don't underestimate anyone;
4. Don't play with emotions and feelings;
5. Be straight or know your partner and mention your status;
6. Don't dishearten anyone;
7. If you can't be anyone's BF/GF, why not take them to your close one;
8. Stop thinking about revenge because life is unpredictable; and
9. Stop jumping and running, or your beauty sleep will fade away.

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